Moment of Silence

(Through Rose-Coloured Glasses)

Last night, a bird kept crying outside somewhere, persistently for over half an hour, until hoarse, then silence. We thought she must have lost her children to some predator.

This morning we received an email, our friend passed away Monday.

It must be a sign.

Last Christmas, we got together. He was in good health. We even talked about retirement and such. Then 2 months ago, he was in hospital, with a big tummy of fluid and wasting away. That was a  virulent case of invasive stomach cancer.

He was optimistic. He said, “Doesn’t matter what kind of treatment, but has to be fast.” Seize the time; that was the spirit. He sort of got his wish, not in the treatment (he opted for none at the end), but the duration and suffering of his illness.

Two weeks later, he was already talking about after life, how some people struggled to the end, reluctant to face death, and lingered and stayed around even after life. But there are those who moved decidedly on to their next life. He bravely accepted his eternity and fate.

Now he has moved on.

Bon Voyage, dear friend.

Object of Our Affection

(Through Rose-Coloured Glasses)

We all love God, family and soccer, though not always in that order. And it all depends on what year it is, of the World Cup and you have a rich aunt in the family, who may leave you everything.

Traditionally, Sunday belongs to the Lord. He rules the pews of all churches. His word of wisdom whips the faithful into a religious frenzy with sermons of sin and redemption and charges the air with the electric buzz of his spirit.

But not this past Sunday.

Our Lord, please forgive all my brothers and sisters. They have sinned by flocking to the nearest restaurant / bar with the largest TV HD screen, instead of to Church. They’re so vain, dressed in orange, or yellow and red and blow their own vuvuzela horn.

But it was worth their while, to play hooky. After waited for the full 116 boring minutes, went even into extra time, the expected actually happened. Somebody finally scored (his real name is Andres Inlesta, of Spain).

The fans were rewarded. The World Cup and its new master were paired-up. This stirred up an electric frenzy and extreme maddened celebrations; fans spilled into the streets everywhere. But sorry to point out, though, my Lord, this frenzy surpassed all the other Sundays’.

And this also elevated Paul, the psychic octopus to the instant celebrity status, with a 100% accuracy in predicting winners of all the semi-final and final matches of this World Cup.

So my advice is, for those who do not have a rich aunt in your family to love, (and those who just lost the WYKAAO World Cup Soccer Fun Contest), start your Octopusy diet now, it may increase your accuracy in predicting the future winning lottery numbers.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ya85knuDzp8

外國的月亮

(Through Rose-Coloured Glasses)

中國人的心態, 甚為複雜, 很多時, 好像總是拿不定主意。

拿我們那個 Superior – Inferior Complex 的矛盾心理来説, 一方面, 我們肯定是大漢沙文; 中華民族, 穩據宇宙中心, 是顧名思義的中國。周圍的, 都是野蠻民族, 都是洋鬼子; 但另方面, 我們又尚崇洋, 外國的月亮特別圓, Make in China 相等於便宜貨式, 要用上来路貨, 才是上等人, 才够面子。

所以, 開門做生意, 還是擺脫不了這套陳舊思想。在中國, 有等公司, 一定要請一位洋人, 来作公司的代言人, 活招牌 (只要是洋臉孔, 有無經驗不大要緊), 就感到十分有體面了。

請個白種人顧員, 是否就是跟, 要住洋樓, 養番狗, 同樣的崇洋心理作怪, 還是”洋為中用”又一例証 !?

其實, 骨子裡, 還有點自卑感。中國人民早巳站起来了, 尤其在今天, 是個新紥之星, 經濟強國, 為什麼我們還是患着老毛病, 看不起自己。一心以為, 請個洋人充門面, 就是棒, 就能提高聲譽, 招来生意, 客似雲来矣。

這 “洋奴性” , 是個惡性腫瘤, 是個頑疾, 要痊愈, 是否還需倚靠, 外國昌明的醫學呢? 外國的月亮, 真的是特別圓嗎?

Nikki Yanofsky – I Believe

(Through Rose-Coloured Glasses)

Nikki Yanofsky is a 16-year-old Canadian musical prodigy. Since her debut at the 2006 Montreal International Jazz Festival, where she won the hearts of the 100,000+ audience, Nikki has never looked back.

Most recently, Nikki was a featured artist at the 2010 Olympic and Paralympic Winter Games held in Vancouver. Performing at the opening and closing ceremonies of the Olympics as well as the opening ceremony of the Paralympics, Nikki was introduced to a world-wide audience. Nikki was also chosen to sing “I Believe,” the anthem of Canada’s Broadcast Consortium. Written by Stephan Moccio and Alan Frew, this song quickly became a #1 hit on iTunes Canada and the Billboard Canada Top 100 chart.

Nikki has used her budding fame to help the underprivileged – becoming an ambassador for the Montreal Children’s Hospital, The Children’s Wish Foundation and MusiCounts. Nikki has also recently joined her fellow Canadian artists in recording K’Naan’s “Wavin’ Flag” for Young Artists for Haiti. Being sold on iTunes as a single and video, the proceeds will directly impact the lives of children, families and communities in Haiti through the relief and rebuilding efforts of Free the Children, War Child Canada and World Vision Canada.  (http://www.nikkionline.ca/)

Nikki Yanofsky – I Believe (by Stephan Moccio / Alan Frew)

There comes a moment when my heart must stand alone
On this lonely path I’ve chosen
like a house that’s not a home
sometimes when I feel I’ve had enough
and I feel like giving up
you willed me to be all I can be
now nothing can stop me

I believe in the power that comes
From a world brought together as one
I believe together we’ll fly
I believe in the power of you and I

This is the moment we have dreamed of all our lives
We’ll be the change we wish from others
We’ll stand tall for what is right
And in my heart there’ll be no doubt
The arms of the world will come reaching out
And embrace me to be all I can be
Now nothing can stop me

I believe in the power that comes
From a world brought together as one
I believe together we’ll fly
I believe in the power of you and I
I believe in the power… of you and I

I believe, I believe, I believe in-
I believe, I believe in you-
I believe, I believe, I believe in-
I believe, I believe, I believe in… you-

(Instrumental)
I believe together we’ll fly
I believe in the power of you and I

I believe the time is right now
Stand tall and make the world proud
I believe together we’ll fly
I believe in the power..
I believe in the power that comes
From a world brought together as one
(Of you and I)
I believe together we’ll fly
I believe in the power of you and I
(power)
I believe the time is right now
(Oh you and I)
Stand tall and make the world proud
I believe together we’ll fly (Together we’ll fly)
I believe in the power of you and I
(I believe in the power…of you and I)

我相信

那一刻
當我的心靈
獨自站在
我所决擇   孤單的途徑
正如, 那屋卻非我家
有時, 感到受够了
想要放棄
你鼓勵我
促我極盡所能
現在, 我, 巳勢不可擋

我相信, 那股力量
四方八面, 聚而為一
我相信, 一起. 我們定能飛翔
我相信, 那, 你和我的力量


夢寐以求的一刻
我們渴望的轉捩點
面對挑戰, 我們穩然昂立
在我心裡, 全無疑問
世界會伸出雙手
擁抱我, 我的一切
現在, 我, 巳勢不可擋

我相信, 那股力量
四方八面, 聚而為一
我相信, 一起. 我們定能飛翔
我相信, 那, 你和我的力量
我相信, 那, 你和我的力量

我相信, 我相信, 我相信, 你
我相信, 我相信, 我相信, 你

我相信, 一起. 我們定能飛翔
我相信, 那, 你和我的力量

我相信, 只爭朝夕, 於今朝
穩然昂立, 令世界, 感到嬌傲
我相信, 一起. 我們定能飛翔
我相信, 那股力量
我相信, 四方八面, 聚而為一
(你和我)
我相信, 一起. 我們定能飛翔
我相信, 那, 你和我的力量
(力量)
我相信, 只爭朝夕, 於今朝
(你和我)
穩然昂立, 令世界, 感到嬌傲
我相信, 一起. 我們定能飛翔
(一起. 我們定能飛翔)
我相信, 那, 你和我的力量
(我相信, 那, 你和我的力量)

Anguish Of An Ordinary Citizen

(Through Rose-Coloured Glasses)

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FHIZ2Jl2vuQ
(Video of an angry shopper stymied by G20 shutdown in Toronto)

I am mad. I am hopping mad.

Why are you closed? Why, why, why!? I want to shop!

Every weekend, I come to Eaton Centre to browse, to shop, to max out my credit cards, just to help out the economy, to fulfill my duty as an ordinary citizen, as a contributor to our financial community. And to spend, spend, spend.

Why did you shut it down, in the name of security?  Why did you shutdown the downtown core, to intimidate us shoppers, by the presence of such a horrendous police force?

Why couldn’t you keep all the guests up in Muskoka, in the safe haven of our cottage country? Look at the G8 gatherings, not a hint of violence; no protest, no riots. Then why bring the G20 back to Toronto? Were they not classy enough for the resort environment? Once when you set up shop with the enclosing wire fences, and a large police force, they acted as magnet and wild fire that attracted all the media-crazed bugs and thugs. All variety of protests zoomed into the downtown core, convenient and within walking distance. Ka-boom, all madness got loose. Was that what you forsee or hope for, with such outcome, to justify the need for more than a billion bucks to be blown away on one weekend.? If not, then why the government already denied to compensate businesses any damage done, way before they actually happened?  That’s amazing.

You can close and board-up parliament whenever you want, but, please do not, I repeat, do not close up our headquarters of consumerism, deprive us of our great shopping experience and entertainment,  ever again.

Why are you closed? Why, why, why!? I want to shop!

I am mad. I am hopping mad.

榮譽謀殺

(Through Rose-Coloured Glasses)

(Photo credit: Alaa al-Marjani / Associated Press A poster at a Najaf rally reads “Stop violence against women.”)

榮譽和謀殺, 是两個格格不入的概念。謀殺, 無論是自衛, 神經病殺人, 安樂死, 都是不甚光彩, 都是懦夫的行為, 都是犯罪的活動, 又怎會感到榮譽呢?

最近在安省, 魁北克, 就發生了幾宗同樣性質的謀殺傷人案件。在Brampton, 有位父親與兄長, 因女孩不願尊守巴基斯坦民族傳統, 堅持穿著西方衣服, 不載民族頭巾, 還離家出走數次, 致令父親在親朋眼中, 因管教不嚴, 大失臉子, 頓起殺人之念。

表面上看来, 這是個各民族文化與習俗不同的問題, 是個 ”如何教養子女”的問題。自古以来, 無論是那一個民族的父母, 都會遇上的。反叛的青少年, 是任何社會的通病, 肯定是個大難題, 但也不應動手殺人, 並引以為榮。這兇殘行為, 又點只習俗, 殺人咁簡單。

想深一層, 歸根到底, 問題的關鍵, 就是婦女在社會上的地位。有些民族, 是男人獨専的社會, 一切都由男人掌權, 操控, 女子並沒有什麼社會地位。一個女子的一生, 都要尊守:  “在家從父, 出嫁從夫, 老来從子” 的禮教, 這相等於中國人的封建思想, 在西方社會, 這類思想, 早巳被淘汰, 成為歷史的糠粕。如果一意孤行, 在這裡, 要維持這類封建遺毒到極端, 出動暴力, 繼而殺人, 就會被世人所唾棄, 成為社會的渣子, 民族的敗類, 何榮譽之有?

The Spy Next Door

(Through Rose-Coloured Glasses)                 

                

上周, 在 CBC 的一個訪問中, CSIS (Canadian Security Intelligence Service) 的 boss, Richard Fadden 透露, 加拿大有两省, 都有省會議員和市會政客, 受着外國的影響, 繼續他又談到中國及 BC 的官員。輿論哇然。                 

中國是個暴發户, 是個新貴, 是座等待開發的新金山, 當然就是人見人愛, 招来很多朱門朋友, secret admirers 和生意人。難道這干人等, 都是受着外國影響, 成為親中可疑人物? 還好, 中國沒有打世界杯, 不然, 球迷擁躉, 搖旗吶喊, 也都早巳被列為 spy next door 了。                 

况且, 加拿大本身就够架勢啦, 又怎會淪為外國服務的 spy 呢? 一個所謂西方民主國家, 能在幾年間, 有本事, 無聲無息地, 成為一黨専政, 而且當政者, 還是個 minority government, 但卻能如 majority 般執政。各反對黨不滿意嗎, 大可關閉國會數月, 以避風頭。什麼 scandals, 只要把一切文件塗黑 (redacted), 也就不了了之。又可以大派銀紙, 揮霍無度, 一般市民, 全無異議, 還是乖乖的, 做其順民。這樣的國家, 才是世界各領導階層, 夢寐以求的藍圖。                 

再看, G8/G20 開會, 為了防止 activists 示威暴動, 把多倫多, 一變而為一個警衛深嚴的城堡, 如臨大敵, 出動大量警察, 軍隊。一早就到處圍捕可疑人物, 也到處設起鐵網, 市民不能近5米内, 就會立刻被逮捕, 先斬後奏。更用上催淚彈, 橡皮子彈, 胡椒噴霧, 各樣武器, 加上一批又接一批, 源源不絶的防暴隊來控制動亂。這種 pre-emptive 高壓手段, 跟中國一向的鎮壓手法, 同是 police state 的鐵腕, 更青出於藍。 如果當年中國能有這 demo 来作借鏡, 又怎會有天安門事件咁失威呢。再且, 中加政制, 越趨相近, 又何需 spy vs spy 呢? 

這都清楚説明, 我們加拿大的領導人, 馴服有方, 處處都是順民。正如財政部長 Jim Flaherty 所吹, 加拿大是 envy of the world, 是經濟強國, 是值得自豪的, 而且在一個周末, 我們就可以花費了過億元, 来招待各地来賓, 那又怎會有 spy next door 咁低章呢。                 

只希望, CSIS boss 的透露, 不會在加拿大, 来一次 McCarthyism 黑手的政治鬥爭, 清洗運動, 就阿尼陀佛矣

人不如狗

(Through Rose-Coloured Glasses)

澳洲最近有份研究報告, 對家犬與野狗 (dingo) 作一比較, 發覺在獨立思考與解決問題的範圍内, 家犬的智力較低。其原因是人對家犬的馴化 (domestication) 所致。家犬能領悟到主人的命令和手勢 (身體語言), 是進化的過程, 巳是先天具来的。它們依頼主人才能生存, 所以不需要很多求生的伎能, 只要馴馴服服, 就能安享一生了。這就是做狗的現實, 為進化而退化。又何樂而不為呢。

照理来説, 其於人也亦然。這也是住家男人所面對的現實。

“太太, 我的車匙 / 眼鏡 / 大衣在那呀?”

“開飯末呀?”

“喂, 亞女幾號電話?”

住家男人, 一切都有靠山。倚頼成性, 結果就產生了 CBC 的真人秀節目, “The Week The Women Went”。節目的題材很簡單, 每season片集, 選加拿大的一個小鎮, 把鎮上全部女仕們, 離鎮放假一星期, 所有男仕留下来, 做其名符其實的住家男人, 打理全部家務, 洗衫煑飯, 照顧孩子。這片集巳放映到第二season , 結論都是, 男人支持女仕不足, 馴化不够。

我又有點不明白? 同樣是”倚頼成性”的 domestication現象, 家犬就是進化過程的退化, 是acceptable的。但對住家男人来説, 卻是末盡全力, 仍需努力。

真是人不如狗了;-)

回到未來

(Through Rose-Coloured Glasses)

剛看過電視 rerun, 2000 舊片, 由 Nicholas Cage 與 Tea Leoni, 領函演出的”住家男人” (Family Man), 不其然想起了 President David 的俄羅斯愛情故事 。

電影一開埸, 就是 Jack 和 Kate 在機埸告別, Jack 要飛往倫敦, 去追求他的事業夢想。十三年後, Jack 巳是一位成功的投資銀行家, 但還是吊兒郎當, 過着王老五的生涯。有一晚, 他遇到一位天使, 醒来時, 發覺自己郤置身在一個 Parallel World 裡。在這裡, 他沒有在倫敦留下, 卻立即飛了回来, 與 Kate 結了婚, 還有两個孩子。Jack 並不是位成功的銀行家, 而是 Kate 父親車呔店的一名顧員。當然, Jack 想盡方法, 希望能回到他的原来世界。漸漸他領悟到, 金錢地位不是一切, 擁有美滿家庭, 能享天倫之樂, 才是人生最終目的。但是太遲了, Jack 又被遣回原来世界, Jack 到處尋找 Kate, 在這裡, Kate 巳是位成功的律師, 要搬到巴黎去發展業務。故事結局, Jack 在機場咖啡室, 希望盡量能説服 Kate, 繼續他們在 Parallel World 的命運。

命運弄人, 很多人都會不滿現實, 以為能回到未來, 改寫歷史, 人生就會十全十美。根據這信念, 很多小説, 電影 (例如Michael J Fox的 Back to the Future, 現在上演的Hot Tub Time Machine), 都是認為, 第二次機會, 一定會比原来的更美好。其實在 real life, 又有誰能肯定, 俄羅斯愛情故事中的男女主角, 又一定會有個羅曼蒂克的結局?

我認為, 做人應面對現實, 我們所走過的路, 是好是壞, 是樂是悲, 也都成為歷史陳跡, 只可從中吸取經驗教訓, 放眼世界, 走向美好的明天。

或許, President David 的 ‘迷而不信  五行淺釋 ‘ 講座, 能給我們一點啟示。

彩色繽紛的加拿大

(Through Rose-Coloured Glasses)

什麼G8/G20, 人工湖, 阿富汗拘留犯, 以色列公海事件, BP深海石油洩漏 ………… , 都要靠邊站, FIFA 世界杯足球賽來也。

足球, 是全世界, 全人類最熱愛的體育運動。不論在世界任何一個角落, 都會碰到踢足球的發燒友。球迷, 更是無孔不入, 處處皆是。

這星期剛才開始, 横過加拿大, 由東岸到西岸, 各大小城市, 都有瘋狂的球迷, 在家裡, 在酒吧, 他們都膠貼在電視機前, 大叫大嚷, 突然跳了起来, 手舞足蹈; 或是垂頭衰氣, 粗口百出。

如果你家有座闊銀幕巨形HD電視機, 你就即時成為最受歡迎的人物, 日日都會高朋滿坐, 平添了很多親密戰友。

很多餐館的食客人數, 也急劇下降。但很奇怪, 堂食雖然少了, 相對地, 外賣反而增多。

這两星期, 員工的工作生產率, 也急劇下降。如果老闆禁止收看, 收聽世界杯, 他們就索性告假在家追波。有見及此, 有些大企業, 卻搬来數具大形電視, 讓員工看過够飽。

加拿大更有一個怪現象, 無論是那一個國家的球隊, 在這裡, 你都可以找到它的球迷擁躉。很多發燒友, 更喜歡, 把他們所擁護的球隊國家的國旗, 插在車的两邊, 招遙過市。萬國旗幟飄掦, 彩色繽紛, 實是好看。

多元文化的加拿大, 顯示出了它的本色。